We see them once in a while on birthdays or Easter or something like that but never aside from that.

If I lived in the same town as my grandparents I would not claim being busy as an excuse. You make some time when you want to. I would at least call or drop over to see them every couple of months. We did for our parents and grandparents. We never regret we did, we know we would regret it had we not have.

The are typical religious people. Big on talk, church going but not the best Christians in my mind. I know better Christians who never go near a church. Even if they weren’t the religious type, we always made time for our grandparents, it is the respectful, loving thing to do. No more we guess.

It makes us so very sad. Actions not words are what count.

They never stop by.  We assume we are hopeless/worthless to them anyway.

This is why Olive and I do not want a church service or anything “if” we die. We don’t want people showing up after we are dead that would never take the time to visit while we are alive. I am sure our granddaughter and husband would be at the funeral if we had one. No thank you. That won’t be when we needed them, we need them now.”