Tag: "father"

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The Forgotten Caregiver?

Living with anybody for a prolonged period of time can have its ups and downs, certainly.  Just ask anyone who has been married.  There are the great times and there are less than great times.  That, of course, is the basis of continuing to build a strong relationship:  enduring the tough times so that you [...]

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A Life Unraveled – a poem by Barbara Parentini

I stumbled across Barbara Parentini on Twitter (see how great social media is) and found this lovely poem dealing with dementia on her website: Gifts By Grace.  I asked if I could share it with you and she kindly granted permission.                  A Life Unraveled   Today feels like [...]

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Privacy………….At what cost???

Well, I just returned from court where I needed to appear in order to end the conservatorship that I had obtained for my father.  I was both a guardian and conservator for him and whereas a guardianship automatically ends at death, a conservatorship does not.  There are papers that must be filed with the court; a financial [...]

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Finding a Good Doctor For Your Loved One

Finding a good doctor for an elderly loved one can be a challenge. Many rural areas and smaller towns do not have gerontologists available. This means that a family will need to look at the non-specialists available in their area to provide medical care for their loved one. Look for a family practitioner or general [...]

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Will Assisted Living Facilities Become the Next Dinosaur?

 This past couple of years, I’ve noticed many new assisted living facilities being built in the area in which I live.  These are gorgeous properties with beautiful amenities throughout that have been placed there by designers hired to make them look like “home”. It wasn’t until I began looking at them as a means of [...]

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What is an Eldercare Mediator (and Do We Need One) ?

Elder care mediation is a relatively new profession and one that will be increasingly needed as more boomers care for their aging parents and also as they become elders themsleves.  In a study reported by Deborah B. Gentry, it was determined that nearly 40% of adult children acting as caregivers had serious conflicts with one or [...]

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You Must Let Go of The Guilt

You Must Let Go of The Guilt

When I woke up this morning, I was crying.  I had been dreaming about my father (who passed away at the end of September).  I recall that in my dream, he was not alive and was propped in a chair.  I was crying, saying “I’m SO sorry; I didn’t know.” Ironically, I know exactly what I didn’t know [...]

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Monitoring Vitamin K Intake During Coumadin Therapy

Monitoring Vitamin K Intake During Coumadin Therapy

Again, I am bringing you guest blogger, Gary Liska from  QAS ( Quality Assured Services, Inc.) because his expertise is in Coumadin therapy, INR testing and Vitamin K regulation.  When my father was placed on Coumadin, the physician’s instructions were to “decrease his intake of green leafy vegetables and don’t let him fall”.  That was [...]

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Ceremonies of Remembrance

Ceremonies of Remembrance

This past Saturday I attended a Ceremony of Remembrance that was presented by the church I attend.  It is an annual ceremony but I had never attended it before, not having reason to do so.  I must tell you that it was a wonderful experience and a wonderful gift that the church offers to its [...]

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Thoughts From an Elder on Being Worthless

Thoughts From an Elder on Being Worthless

A friend of mine received the following letter from an 80 year old friend of hers.  Because of its message, we thought it was important to share. “Dear Kendra, We are very sad about our granddaughter and her husband. Her name is Jessica.  She was our lst grandchild and we spoiled her the most. Since [...]