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		<title>Botox Treatments for Urinary Incontinence in Seniors</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 13:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Botox Treatments for Urinary Incontinence in Seniors The United States Food and Drug Administration approved Botox for use in treating urinary incontinence among elderly patients in August of 2011. Primarily conceived as a wrinkle-reducing alternative to plastic surgery, Botox has eluded many medical authorities with its growing applications in treating the symptoms of many conditions [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Botox Treatments for Urinary Incontinence in Seniors</strong></p>
<p>The United States Food and Drug Administration approved Botox for use in treating urinary incontinence among elderly patients in August of 2011. Primarily conceived as a wrinkle-reducing alternative to plastic surgery, Botox has eluded many medical authorities with its growing applications in treating the symptoms of many conditions and diseases. So what is urinary incontinence, how does the use of Botox in New York and the rest of the country treat it, and what else can this drug do?</p>
<p><strong>What is Urinary Incontinence?</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/urinaryincontinence.html">Urinary incontinence</a> refers to uncontrollable urination. Episodes of incontinence are reportedly sporadic, varying in frequency and volume, but almost always create social anxiety in the patient. Urinary incontinence is almost always a symptom rather than a disorder in itself. As such, physical examinations and urinalysis tests should be conducted to reveal the cause of the problem.</p>
<p>Acute urinary incontinence can be caused by excessive consumption of water, alcohol, coffee, or a pre-existing condition such as a urinary tract infection. More chronic cases are associated with various surgical operations, aging, childbirth, prostate cancer, or bladder issues.</p>
<p>The most prevalent symptom of urinary incontinence is uncontrollable urination, which can be excited by stress, involuntary bladder contractions, or the bladder&#8217;s inability to empty itself. Related conditions, whether they are causal, resultant, or incidental, include urinary tract infections, bladder and prostate cancer, atrophic urethritis, endocrine disorders, and <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2826159/">psychiatric disorders</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Why Botox?</strong></p>
<p>Botox or botulinum toxin is a diluted neurotoxin, similar to the venom that snakes and other predators use to paralyze their prey. When safely administered, Botox acts as a long-term muscle relaxer. When used to treat urinary incontinence, Botox is directly injected to an overactive bladder. After an incontinent person is injected with Botox, they have much more control of the contractions involved with urination. No other medications or <a href="http://www.plasticsurgeryguide.com/">plastic surgery procedures</a> have deterred urinary incontinence for as long as a single Botox injection, which the FDA says can relieve incontinence for as long as ten months.</p>
<p><strong>Additional Uses</strong></p>
<p>In addition to treating urinary incontinence, the use of Botox in New York and several other states has been FDA-approved to treat several other symptoms and disorders. Its primary use was to relieve muscle spasms of the eye. Since then, it has been cited to relieve hyperhidrosis, migraines, and even cerebral palsy. Hyperhidrosis, or excessive sweating, is inhibited by the gland-blocking effects of Botox injections. Similarly, research initiatives by the Baylor College of Medicine have suggested that Botox cures migraines by cutting off “pain pathways” in the nervous system. Finally, Botox allows young adults and children with cerebral palsy to better control their otherwise severe and unpredictable muscular contractions.</p>
<p><strong>Botox Statistics</strong></p>
<p>When compared to a placebo group, patients in an FDA clinical trial of almost 700 urinary incontinence sufferers said that they experienced fewer episodes of incontinence. The <a href="http://www.surgery.org/">American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery</a> recently released the number of procedures that have been conducted across the country, which is now more than 2,437,165. Roughly 17 percent of those procedures addressed urinary continence and related conditions. As it concerns the use of <a href="http://www.plasticsurgeryguide.com/find-a-plastic-surgeon/new-york/">Botox in New York</a>, the state&#8217;s 12 percent of elderly residents has undergone more than 100,000 botox injections since 2003.</p>
<p>Editor&#8217;s note: The above information was provided by PlasticSurgeryGuide.com. Please do not consider this as a recommendation.  It is simply presented for your information.  Check with your physician to decide whether this would be an appropriate treatment or to discuss other options for treatment of urinary incontinence.</p>
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		<title>When a Parent Comes to Stay</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 12:23:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When A Parent Comes To Stay   It is becoming more and more common for elderly parents to move in with their children. This arrangement can be beneficial for many aging mothers or fathers but if not thought out properly can drastically change the lives of everyone in the household, including the aging loved one. There are several reasons [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;"> <a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Senior-Citizen-google-images.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2475" title="Senior-Citizen google images" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Senior-Citizen-google-images-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a></span></p>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">It is becoming more and more common for elderly parents to move in with their children. This arrangement can be beneficial for many aging mothers or fathers but if not thought out properly can drastically change the lives of everyone in the household, including the aging loved one.</p>
<p>There are several reasons why aging parents move in with their adult children. Some of the common reasons include:</p>
<li>Ailing health or illness</li>
<li>Negative opinions of institutional care</li>
<li>Poor institutional care</li>
<li>Cost of medical caregivers</li>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">* Financial reasons</p>
<p>Before aging parents move in with their adult children, several considerations must be made. The first consideration before parents move in with their adult children is to decide if you are able to handle the task of caregiving.  It is often daunting and time-consuming and may interfer with the current family dynamic. You need to know that it will not get much easier as time passes.  But you also need to know that it can be very rewarding and a great experience to provide care and compassion to your aging loved one and that you will get to learn more about their life experiences.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">When an aging parent of loved one moves into your home, it is much like having a toddler in the home again.  The house must be &#8220;elder-proofed&#8221;.  Things that break must be put away.  Decorative throw rugs must be secured VERY well or taken out of the room altogether.  If your parent has dementia, the kitchen might need to be rearranged so that items can be found by the elder more easily.  There will be doctor&#8217;s appointments, lab tests, physical therapy, extra trips to the store, possible hair dresser appointments, etc.</span></div>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">The television may be VERY loud when an elder is listening to it.  There may be &#8220;accidents&#8221; in the bathroom or elsewhere. There will be dirty handprints all along the walls as elders search for a place to stabilize their walking. Glasses, hearing aids, wallets and dentures will &#8220;disappear&#8221; daily. </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">The second thing to consider is physical living arrangements. In some cases, the children may move into the home of their parents. In other cases, it is the parents moving into the homes of their children. Some families do not have any space in either home and so an additional room or suite is built on one of the existing properties. This should be taken care of first, if time and the situation permit. If a spare bedroom is available, it should be fixed up to accommodate the parents. Adjustments will have to be made, depending on the condition of the parents. Some common adjustments made for parents are:</p>
<li>Replacing traditional doorknobs with handles for ease of opening</li>
<li>Remove or reposition furniture that is obstructing walking areas</li>
<li>Install grab bars in the bathroom &#8211; towel bars will not work and WILL be pulled down</li>
<li>Securing any slipping floor surfaces such as rugs (or remove them altogether)</li>
<li>Add motion detector lights to hallways and bathrooms because of decreased vision in the elder</li>
<li>Widen doorways for wheelchairs or walkers if budget allows</li>
<li>Install ramps or lifts if needed and if budget allows
<p>The children of the elderly parents should be completely aware of all the medical conditions of their parents. They should be familiar with their doctors and specialists. Being a good caregiver is being an informed caregiver. Children should be aware of their parent&#8217;s prescribed medications, their side effects and if they are taking them correctly.  They should be familiar with emergency response procedures for common mishaps or medical conditions.</li>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">If your parent is moving into your home for financial reasons, care costs should also be discussed with siblings and arrangements should be made to split any extra costs. Often one sibling will provide most of the physical care giving while another might choose to help out financially. Cost-of-living should be estimated so concrete numbers can be discussed. </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">If able, the parent should also pick up part of the bill. Ideally, payments can be made to the children from savings. However, many elderly parents have exhausted any savings with medical care or other matters by the time they move in with their children. If the parents have no savings, it is acceptable to ask for a percentage of any monthly pensions or social security. Don&#8217;t feel compelled to become financially distressed just because you feel that it is your duty to care for them.  The money that they have saved is just for this very reason&#8230;..their care.</p>
<p> Although most children and parents have relationships based on love and mutual caring, in some circumstances it may be necessary to draw up a financial contract. This is also a good protection for the caregiving child and will help to show siblings where the paren&#8217;s money is going. Proof of expenses may also be needed  for any government services the parents may take advantage of or may want to take advantage of in the future (especially Medicaid who requests proof of spending 5 years previous to the date of application). If you have a financial advisor or attorney, it may be beneficial to talk to them this.  In some situations, the children&#8217;s income can also affect benefits available to the parent. On the bright side, there may be tax deductions that the children can take for providing care for their parents.</p>
<p>It may also be possible that even though parents are safely living with their children that no one is home during the day. For cases such as this day-time caregivers may need to be hired or the services of an adult daycare center may be needed. Recreation centers for the elderly do exist and sometimes they can even provide transportation. Remember that if your parent has dementia, it will be even more important to monitor their where-abouts. A change in living environment will cause some increased confusion for awhile and may cause them to wander.  There are many bracelet-type monitors that can aid in keeping them safe from becoming lost (see </span><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.Alz.org"><span style="font-size: small;">http://www.Alz.org</span></a><span style="font-size: small;">) . There are also monitors that can be placed in the home to detect lack of movement or monitors that can be accessed from off-site computers.</p>
<p>Following this advice can help take care of many situations that will arise when elderly parents and their adult children are living together. These instructions, however, are far from complete. Do not be afraid to seek out additional resources to help with the move.</span></div>
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		<title>10 Springtime Activities for Seniors</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 12:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[    Spring is a time of awakening and rejuvenation.  Watching the earth renew itself and bring forth flowers and greenery gives us hope.  It also gives us a reason to get outside!   Our elder loved ones need the chance to experience the joy that spring brings too. I was watching a video and one [...]]]></description>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Spring is a time of awakening and rejuvenation.  Watching the earth renew itself and bring<img src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/DSCN3340-0151.jpg" alt="" width="300" align="right" /> forth flowers and greenery gives us hope.  It also gives us a reason to get outside!</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Our elder loved ones need the chance to experience the joy that spring brings too. I was watching a video and one elder who suffers from dementia stated &#8220;there is nothing worse than having nothing to do&#8221;. </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">I&#8217;ve collected a few activities that can easily be done by elders or ways that they can feel like a contributing member of the household.  </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">1. Fill the bird feeders or feed the birds (that&#8217;s my father above; he LOVED &#8220;his&#8221; geese.)</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">2. Water the plants.  Sure they may get wet but watering is so rejuvenating and clothes can easily (usually) be changed.  </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">3. Plant some seeds in pots for a windowsill or patio garden &#8211; dill, basil, cilantro, lavendar, plarsley, mint, thyme, oregano, chives, marigolds, pansies are the easiest to grow.  </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">4. Separate the spring bulbs into groups or place the bulbs right side up after the planting area has been prepared for them.  </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">5. Help with spring cleaning by emptying out a closet. (Of course, you will be the one who puts the items back into place, but they can help by putting those items that are going to be donated into a box or bag.)</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">6. Go for a walk.  It&#8217;s good for both of you.  </span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">7. Watch the food network shows and write down recipes.  This may help to jog your loved-one&#8217;s memory about an old recipe that they used to make, which can then be noted and kept for a family cookbook.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">8.  Pull weeds &#8211; I hate to even bring this one up, because it&#8217;s not seen as fun, but my father really enjoyed pulling weeds in his later years. It got him out in the fresh air and gave him a sense of accomplishment.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">9.  Deadhead flowers. Deadheading is the process of pinching off the spent blooms of flowers such as marigolds, geraniums, pansies, etc., so that they will produce more blooms.</span> </div>
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<div>10. <span style="font-size: small;">Wash the tops of the patio tables and the seats of the chairs</span>. <span style="font-size: small;">Fluff the cushions</span>. </div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">Certainly, we don&#8217;t want to make slaves of our elderly loved ones, but by participating in family chores, they will feel that they are contributing and will ultimately feel better about themselves.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size: small;">What other activities have you found that help your aging loved one to feel included?</span></div>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 21:08:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Senior Citizens and Fall Prevention By Guest Writer: Ruth Rogers Every year, many senior citizens have a fall.  Not all of the falls are devastating, but many of them are. Falls can cause broken or fractured bones, loss of motor function and independence, and even death. Unfortunately, many people just accept this as a normal aspect of [...]]]></description>
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<p>By Guest Writer: <a href="http://seniorlivingsource.org" target="_blank">Ruth Rogers</a></p>
<p>Every year, many senior citizens have a fall.  Not all of the falls are devastating, but many of them are. Falls can cause broken or fractured bones, loss of motor function and independence, and even death. Unfortunately, many people just accept this as a normal aspect of aging. Fortunately, there are many ways to prevent senior citizens from falling so they can maintain their independence.</p>
<p>There are many reasons that falls increase with age. To begin with, failing eyesight can cause a person to misjudge stairs and curbs, even when they are in a familiar location. Regular eye checks and screenings will alert you to issues with your loved one&#8217;s eyesight and help to keep them safe. Wearing  glasses is another way to prevent falls from poor eyesight. Even though your loved one might only be walking from their bed to the bathroom in the middle of the night, make sure to remind them to turn on the lights and put on their glasses.</p>
<p>Another way to prevent falls from vision problems is to remove trip hazards throughout the house. When caregiving, remember to check the home thoroughly for dangling cords or clutter that might be dangerous.</p>
<p>Even small changes like eating a better diet can help eyesight. Dark leafy veggies, fish oil, and vitamins E, A, and C are perfect for protecting  eye health.</p>
<p>Exercise is another way to reduce eye problems. Hardening of the arteries can lead to high blood pressure which can affect eyesight. Diabetes is another risk factor for reduced eyesight. Exercise can help with heart disease risks as well as circulation problems, which can greatly reduce the associated risk of sight loss.</p>
<p>Smoking is the second largest reason for the development of macular degeneration, so quitting smoking now will not only do wonders for the heart and blood flow, the skin tone and a lessened risk of cancer, but will also lower their risk of damage to your eyesight.</p>
<p>Balance exercises are also encouraged to lessen the risk of a fall. Have your loved one try balancing on one foot and then the other for a few moments.  Make sure that there is a table or chair nearby in case they are a bit wobbly, but you will find that just a little bit of practice will help to restore their balance and to safeguard you from a dangerous fall.</p>
<p>The process of aging is already tough on the eyes as they are less able to produce tears and the lenses are not as clear as they once were. Focusing can become difficult and sensitivity to glare increases. All of these factors add up to the increased risk of a fall and it is vital that your loved one does all that they can to preserve their eyesight so that they can avoid a fall.</p>
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		<title>How The Past Can Help the Present</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 18:32:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How the Past Can Help the Present &#8211; by Maryellen Kernaghan There is a wonderful video called &#8220;Care home turns back the clock on dementia&#8221;.  You can find it at  www.bbc.uk and search under &#8220;health&#8221; .  I highly suggest seeking it out.  It talks about using the past to calm dementia patients in the present.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/80697930_thb1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1646" title="80697930_thb" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/80697930_thb1-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>How the Past Can Help the Present &#8211; by Maryellen Kernaghan</p>
<p>There is a wonderful video called &#8220;Care home turns back the clock on dementia&#8221;.  You<br />
can find it at  www.bbc.uk and search under &#8220;health&#8221; .  I highly suggest seeking it<br />
out.  It talks about using the past to calm dementia patients in the present.  How<br />
often have any of us, as caregivers, been frustrated or even frightened by our<br />
inability to reach our loved ones when they seem lost in the fog of forgetfulness?</p>
<p>In my own experience as a care giver, it was recalling the past that best engaged my<br />
93 year old mother in articulate conversation, when she would ask a question about<br />
her current state, such as &#8220;where is the dog&#8221; every 2 minutes, even when answered<br />
every time.  It was not out of spite that she would repeat and repeat these kinds of<br />
questions, she simply could not retain the information.    But when she spoke of her<br />
youth, when asked about her job at Lord and Taylor&#8217;s in NYC when she was in her<br />
20&#8242;s, she could describe the exact dress she bought with a matching coat and hat<br />
when dating my father, and how much he liked that particular ensemble&#8230;.and could<br />
carry on that conversation in a linear way for MUCH longer than she could remember<br />
the answer to &#8220;where is the dog&#8221; &#8211; even when the dog was sitting at her feet!  Or,<br />
when played a song from 1930&#8242;s, could tell you exactly where she was when she first<br />
heard that song, and perhaps, how she and her sisters would dance together to the<br />
music on Saturday morning, when helping in the housekeeping with her own mother,<br />
Mama&#8230;.</p>
<p>When ArtsCare (www.artscareus.org) visits a facility, we use the arts as a vehicle<br />
to engage the elderly in activities that can increase their motor and social skills,<br />
or reduce their level of anxiety.  Music is a great resource -  William Congreve is<br />
credited with having said &#8220;Music hath charms to soothe a savage breast, to soften<br />
rocks, or bend a knotted oak.&#8221;   We need to be credited with USING this blessed<br />
tool&#8230;</p>
<p>Maryellen Kernaghan<br />
Director<br />
ArtsCare<br />
www.artscareus.org521 E. 6th Street #2<br />
New York, NY 10009</p>
<p>Art is the only way to run away without leaving home.<br />
-Twyla Tharp</p>
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		<title>Is There a Difference Between Elder and Elderly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 20:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As we come into the holiday season, many of us reflect back on the &#8220;old days&#8221; &#8211; and sometimes they seem more poignant now than when they were happening! One question that has always haunted me is what is the difference between being an elder and being elderly? Is it like the difference between a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/19017869_thb3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1639" title="19017869_thb" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/19017869_thb3-195x300.jpg" alt="" width="195" height="300" /></a>As we come into the holiday season, many of us reflect back on the &#8220;old days&#8221; &#8211; and sometimes they seem more poignant now than when they were happening!  One question that has always haunted me is what is the difference between being an elder and being elderly?  Is it like the difference between a &#8220;tween&#8221; and a teen?  Seems more serious than that &#8211; but should it?  I can only use my own life as an example.   My mother was always a “pistol”; always full of life and full of love  But we made it work. When she moved in with me she was already 80!   But I would not have called her elderly.   My mother smiled a big smile. She nodded as if she understood you, when she could not hear a word someone said even with her hearing aid (except when I was with her and had to repeat everything directly into her ear). She would throw kisses at every baby that passed, waved at people who smiled at her. She was, in a word, happy. She enjoyed life.   It was all a big adventure to her.   While she was an elder, over the years she grew elderly.   In the 12 years she lived with me, the change was clear.   But I tried as best as I could to TREAT her as an elder, while I CARED for her, in many cases, as the elderly woman she was becoming.   My mother had lived with me for over 12 years.   For the last years she and I traded the role of the one who gave and the one who received. My mom still is the elder of the family in everyone’s mind, only in her physical frailty was she elderly…  Maryellen Kernaghan Director Kernaghan Associates ArtsCare www.artscareus.org521 E. 6th Street #2 New York, NY 10009  Art is the only way to run away without leaving home. -Twyla Tharp   <form method="post" action=""><input type="hidden" name="ip" value="38.107.179.236" /><p>Your email:<br /><input type="text" name="email" value="Enter email address..." size="20" onfocus="if (this.value == 'Enter email address...') {this.value = '';}" onblur="if (this.value == '') {this.value = 'Enter email address...';}" /></p><p><input type="submit" name="subscribe" value="Subscribe" />&nbsp;<input type="submit" name="unsubscribe" value="Unsubscribe" /></p></form>
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		<title>If Your Parent Falls, Will Someone Be There to Pick Them Up?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 20:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just attended a webinar on falls presented by Warren Hellelfinger, CEO of Bay Alarm Medical. Yes, it was a sales presentation but I learned some astonishing information and wanted to pass it along to you, as a caregiver or would-be caregiver. First of all, falls happen. They don&#8217;t just happen in nursing homes (in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/19147351_thb.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1089" title="19147351_thb" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/19147351_thb-300x250.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="250" /></a>I just attended a webinar on falls presented by Warren Hellelfinger, CEO of Bay Alarm Medical. Yes, it was a sales presentation but I learned some astonishing information and wanted to pass it along to you, as a caregiver or would-be caregiver.</p>
<p>First of all, falls happen. They don&#8217;t just happen in nursing homes (in fact, only 10% of falls happen in a nursing home). My father fell all the time. He would fall when I was 3 steps away from him. He kept telling me &#8220;don&#8217;t worry; I know how to fall&#8221; and he must have because he was never seriously injured from a fall later in life. The reason I say &#8220;later in life&#8221; is because a fall on a boom of logs was what broke his back, causing the doctors to perform a bone graft from his leg (OLD medicine) which made his one leg VERY weak.</p>
<p>Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Statistics show that 69% of elders over the age of 70 WILL fall. That&#8217;s a HUGE number. Falls do not happen in convenient locations (i.e. in places where telephones just happen to be present).</p>
<p>There are things that we can do to prevent falls:</p>
<p>Environmental:</p>
<ul>
<li>eliminate throw rugs</li>
<li>make sure that electrical cords are secured against walls</li>
<li>provide for adequate lighting in walk-ways and all areas (remember to install night lights in hallways)</li>
<li>avoid clutter</li>
<li>make sure that all needed items are within reach so there is no temptation to use a stool or chair</li>
<li>grab bars in bathrooms and sturdy handrails in places with steps are necessary</li>
</ul>
<p>Health:</p>
<ul>
<li>medical conditons can make falls more likely, so be aware of those</li>
<li>recent hospitalizations may have debilitated the elder</li>
<li>keep the elder hydrated and consuming adequate nutrients</li>
<li>be aware that vision and gait problems can also cause falls</li>
<li>persons with dementia may forget that they cannot do a specific dangerous task</li>
</ul>
<p>Falls occur most often in bathrooms and on stairways.  There are usually no telephones in those areas.</p>
<p>Here were the facts that I found most alarming:</p>
<p>If a senior fell and the response time for help was less than 3 hours, they had an 88.5% chance of returning home from the hospital if they needed to be brought there.  If the response time was longer than 12 hours, there was only a 2.7% chance that the elder would be able to return home!  But guess what???  The median response time for an elder who falls is&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;17 hours!</p>
<p>This is why a Personal Emergency Response System (PERS) is so important.  One example of this is a button that is worn by the elder.  If there is a fall, the elder can push the button which then sends a signal to an operator. This operator has information about the wearer, such as name, address, age, medications, allergies,  personal physician, and location of a lock box where a spare key is hidden.  The operator will immediately send a medical response team.</p>
<p>There are many PERS suppliers and it&#8217;s important to find a good one, of course.  Check with both AARP.org and Alz.org for their recommendations.  Also <a href="http://consumereducation.suite101.com/article.cfm/choosing_a_medical_alert_system" target="_blank">here</a> is a good article on making sure that you are choosing an appropriate one. </p>
<p>I also want to give a shout out to <a href="https://www.bayalarmmedical.com/" target="_blank">Bay Alarm Medical </a>as they are allowing a special price to our readers which can be taken advantage of until April 30th.  They are offering a free 30 day trial with no shipping or handling charges for the equipment and no activiation fee.  For anyone who contiues using the system, their monthly charge is $34.95. The PERS can be worn around the neck or wrist and is waterproof.  Their phone number is 1-877-522-9633. Mention the word &#8220;webinar&#8221; for the free trial.  (I have no affiliation with this company, nor do I receive a commission.  Please do your research to make sure that your personal needs will be met before purchasing ANY product.)</p>
<p>Also, if you have a father like mine (slightly stubborn, shall we say) who did not wish to wear any sort of alarm, a couple of things that you might say to convince them are &#8220;this is to make ME feel better, Dad&#8230;&#8230;.do it for me&#8221; .  Or you might compare the system to the Triple A card that many of us carry around &#8220;just in case&#8221; and also that many of our parents gave to US when we first learned to drive.   One other item you might try is to reinforce to them that wearing this device will actually help them to maintain their independence in the long run and isn&#8217;t that what they really want?</p>
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		<title>The Wooden Bowl</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 21:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year grandson. The old man&#8217;s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather&#8217;s shakey hands and failing sight made eating difficult.  Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/23078608_thb.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1027" title="23078608_thb" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/23078608_thb-300x233.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="233" /></a>A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year grandson. The old man&#8217;s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather&#8217;s shakey hands and failing sight made eating difficult.  Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.</p>
<p>The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.  &#8220;We must do something about Grandfather,&#8221; said the son.  &#8220;I&#8217;ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating and food on the floor.&#8221;  So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.  There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather&#8217;s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.</p>
<p>The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.  He asked the child sweetly, &#8220;What are you making?&#8221;  Just as sweetly, the boy responded, &#8220;Oh I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food from when I grow up.&#8221;  The four year-old smiled and went back to work.</p>
<p>The words so struck the parents that they were speechless.  Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.  That evening the husband took Grandfather&#8217;s hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.<br />
 <br />
<span style="color: #000000;">[Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and their minds ever process the messages they absorb.  If they see us patiently provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives.  The wise parent realizes that every day the building blocks are being laid for the child's future.  Let's be wise builders and role models. <br />
 </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The author of this story is unknown but it was retold on <a href="http://story-lovers.com">http://story-lovers.com</a>. </span></p>
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		<title>Almost Scammed !</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 00:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shelley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, here&#8217;s a post that I never anticipated writing.  My Mom was almost the victim of an elder abuse scam today!  My sister and I were able to thwart the would-be abuser just seconds before my Mom wired him almost $5000.00. Here&#8217;s what happened: My Mom, who is 86, and somewhat hard of hearing as [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/19145862_thb.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-991" title="19145862_thb" src="http://takingcareofthefolks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/19145862_thb-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>Well, here&#8217;s a post that I never anticipated writing.  My Mom was almost the victim of an elder abuse scam today!  My sister and I were able to thwart the would-be abuser just seconds before my Mom wired him almost $5000.00.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what happened:</p>
<p>My Mom, who is 86, and somewhat hard of hearing as many elders are,  lives in Canada in a senior apartment complex.  She received a call from a man who stated that her grandson was in jail for drunk driving (he had been at a wedding, had a couple beers and was caught driving the wrong way up a one way street) and needed money to bail him out immediately.  He mumbled the name a couple of times, and my Mom, being the helpful person she is, volunteered my son&#8217;s name.  &#8220;Yes, Tyler!&#8221; said the man.  &#8220;We need the money within 15 minutes and then he&#8217;ll go before the judge in an hour.&#8221;  So my Mom immediately called my sister to come get her and help her wire money to &#8220;him&#8221;.  She had all the details written down.</p>
<p>Praise the Lord that it just so happened that my sister and I were texting back and forth about some other banking business.  I had texted &#8220;You should go out to dinner tonight.&#8221;  About 2 minutes later, she texted back &#8220;No..no dinner celebration yet&#8230;gotta pick up Mom so she can wire $ to Tyler.  I just heard. Om goodness.&#8221;  I texted back &#8220;whaaat?  I don&#8217;t think I know about this.&#8221;</p>
<p>Apparently the man who had spoken to my Mom had said not to notify her grandson&#8217;s parents as he didn&#8217;t want them to know about the incident. </p>
<p>So that was about the time I became frantic.  I called Tyler&#8230;.NO ANSWER!  I called his Dad&#8230;..NO ANSWER!  NO ANSWER from his sister either.  Meanwhile Mom is on the way with my sister to wire the money.  I finally was able to talk to Tyler&#8217;s Dad who said he had spoken to him just a couple hours earlier and he wasn&#8217;t at a wedding; he was at school.  I texted my sister &#8220;Are you SURE we&#8217;re talking about Tyler?&#8221;  &#8220;Yup&#8221;, she responded.</p>
<p>You might wonder why I just didn&#8217;t dial my sister&#8217;s phone and talk to her.  Well, she was on her cell phone and not supposed to receive calls from the US because it&#8217;s about $3.00 a minute.  I texted her again &#8220;Ask Mom if she actually talked to Tyler.&#8221;  No response.</p>
<p>It was time for a voice to voice phone chat!  I dialed several times before she finally picked up and she told me they were just about to send the money through.  I heard the clerk in the background.  I asked where it was being sent&#8230;.Montreal, I heard my Mom say.  MONTREAL????  My son lives in California. </p>
<p>I told my sister to stop, don&#8217;t send the money; it sounds like a scam.  So they called the police and sure enough, that&#8217;s what it was.</p>
<p>Seconds away from losing $4400.00. </p>
<p>If you are a caregiver for a family member who is under constant surveillance, this is less likely to happen, but for those of us with elders living elsewhere, it&#8217;s a absolute possibility, especially if they are living in a senior apartment complex or a community of &#8220;55 plus&#8221; residents.  Please advise all of your aging relatives or friends to NEVER send money by wire OR by mail  without first speaking to another family member.  Never follow anyone&#8217;s advice who tells them not to &#8220;trouble anyone else&#8221; with the information.  Tell them that if a family member is unavailable, to call their minister, rabbi or even their family physician for advice before acting on requests for money, no matter how urgent the matter might seem. </p>
<p>Incidentally, Tyler was very glad to hear that he was NOT under arrest, as was his girlfriend, sister and father.</p>
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Finding a good doctor for an elderly loved one can be a challenge. Many rural areas and smaller towns do not have gerontologists available. This means that a family will need to look at the non-specialists available in their area to provide medical care for their loved one.</p>
<p>Look for a family practitioner or general practice physician to be the primary care physician for your loved one. General and family practitioners are trained to treat all aspects of a person&#8217;s health and well-being even though they have not specialized in a specific field. They treat the elderly as well as newborns, children and adults for everything from a splinter to a more serious illness.</p>
<p>Health Insurance Coverage</p>
<p>Choosing a doctor can be based upon several factors. One of the first aspects to look at is whether or not the patient&#8217;s health coverage is accepted by the physician being considered.  Most physicians will accept Medicare but it&#8217;s important to determine whether or not they will accept Medicaid and/or the supplemental policy if one is available.  If the doctor will accept the health coverage, the next thing to look at is accessibility.</p>
<p>Location and Accessibility</p>
<p>It is important to choose a doctor whose office is located close enough to be easily accessed for routine care and emergencies. If the elderly loved one is homebound, a physician who understands this and is willing to work around this detail to provide care is ideal.</p>
<p>Physicians can order home health nurses to draw blood, administer injections, take vitals signs and other basic medical procedures then report to the doctor. These procedures would normally be done at the doctor&#8217;s office, but when dealing with a homebound patient, getting them into the office may be a problem.</p>
<p>In addition, when transporting an elderly homebound loved one, distance to the doctor&#8217;s office can play a part in the convenience of the location. Determine if the time spent driving and the distance to and from a doctor&#8217;s office makes the doctor in question an acceptable choice for your loved one&#8217;s needs. If the doctor requires that your loved one must been seen at the office frequently, then distance can be an important factor when choosing the physician.</p>
<p>Office Hours</p>
<p>When choosing a doctor there are a few important questions about the doctor&#8217;s schedule that you should ask. What kind of office hours does the doctor hold? Do they have evening or weekend hours? How can you get in touch with them when the office is closed? Are the physicians who cover the &#8220;on-call&#8221; hours acceptible to you?</p>
<p>Hospital Choices</p>
<p>Most doctors have privileges at specific hospitals. When choosing a doctor, it is important to find out which hospital or hospitals the doctor has privileges at. This is the same hospital the patient would go to for emergency care, tests and surgeries in most cases. The size, location and reputation of the hospital may play a large role in your decision to choose or not choose a specific doctor.  Some towns and cities have specialty hospitals for certain conditions.  If your loved one has a condition that is treated by one of these specialty hospitals, it is important to determine if the primary physician has priviledges there.</p>
<p>Personality</p>
<p>Even the most qualified and credentialed doctor may not be the best choice for your loved one&#8217;s personal physician if their personality clashes with yours. You&#8217;ll probably want to choose a doctor that you genuinely like and feel comfortable with. Remember that you will need to be working closely with this person to advocate for the best health care for your loved one.  Imagine my surprise when I asked my father&#8217;s physician if he might be discharged in the afternoon only to hear him say &#8220;What part of HE WILL BE DISCHARGED TOMORROW MORNING did you not understand?&#8221;  However, there are also surgeons that I have worked with in the past who had terrible bed-side manners yet they are the ones with whom I would have trusted my life.</p>
<p>Choose a doctor who will take the time to speak with you as you advocate for your loved one&#8217;s health care. The doctor should be willing to listen to your concerns and answer your questions to your satisfaction. Remember, you are hiring them and paying them for their time.  The days of the primadonna physician OUGHT to be over.</p>
<p>Another consideration is the physician&#8217;s staff.</p>
<p>Do you like the physician&#8217;s staff? Are the doctor&#8217;s employees personable, respectful and pleasant? If you find receptionists, nurses and other staff members to be rude, then perhaps you should consider other physicians. These are the people you will be working with to schedule appointments, update prescriptions and access patient information. If you find them difficult to work with initially, it might improve over time but don&#8217;t expect it to automatically occur.</p>
<p>Ask the doctor if they have a Family Nurse Practitioner or a Physician&#8217;s Assistant in practice with them. These medical professionals assist doctors in caring for patients in many private practices. Decide if this is acceptable to you for your loved one&#8217;s care. If not, then you may need to continue looking or specify in the patient records that care must be provided by the doctor.  Keep in mind though that Nurse Practitioners and Physician&#8217;s Assistants generally have more time to spend with the patient and are trained to be patient advocates.  They are also often more accessible.</p>
<p>Making the Choice</p>
<p>After taking all of these factors into consideration, decide which physician you would like to care for your loved one. Schedule a new patient appointment and commit to making the new relationship work.</p>
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